"The family. We are a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together."
--Erma Bombeck
"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."
--Mother Teresa

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I've forgotten....

I’ve forgotten how hard newborns are. I think that was meant to happen. If I’d remember how rough those first few months were, I probably wouldn’t have had another one.

Newborns cry…..a lot. And sometimes (most of the time) it’s hard to figure out what’s wrong.
Newborns go through a lot of laundry.
Newborns smell…..sometimes good…most of the time not so good.
Newborns have no concept of day or night….they eat and poop whenever they want.
Newborns require a lot of supplies.
Newborns are very stiff and hard to clean and get dressed.
Newborns don’t care who they pee, poop, or puke on.
Did I mention that newborns cry? A.l.o.t.

But, I’ve also forgotten how incredible newborns are. I think that’s meant to happen, too. If we remembered how wonderful they are…then each one wouldn’t be as special and we wouldn’t appreciate the sweetness.

Newborns bring such a special feeling into your home…that fresh from heaven feeling.
Newborns do smell bad…most of the time…but when they smell good….ohhhh, they smell good.
Newborns sleep a lot….and oh how I love to cuddle with a sleeping baby.
Newborns smile a lot…even if it’s just gas, it still melts my heart.
Newborns do poop a lot…but their little bums are so cute, it’s almost worth it.
Newborns stay where you put them.
Newborns make sweet cooing sounds…not sassy, yelling ones.
Newborns remind you how important eternal families are.
Holding a newborn instantly takes away all the ugliness of life and gives you a glimpse of heaven.

7 comments:

Katie said...

That is the sweetest thing I have read. It is all so true. Sometimes I miss having those moments of just sitting and holding them.

Stringham Family said...

What a beautiful way to describe newborns! You are a wonderful mom! Abby and Emily are both so blessed to have you and Geoff as parents! She is such a doll! I love that pic you posted of her! She is a beautiful little girl! Can't wait to get home and hold her again and let Leah play with Emily! She misses her friend more than I could have imagined!

Evelyn said...

Such a sweet post. It is true that you forget. Thanks for the reminders!

Tina said...

All so very well said!! I LOVE the photo of your sweetie!!!!

Jeigh said...

Oh, she is so sweet! I can't wait to meet her, someday!!

Marta said...

Heavenly Father is so sweet, he knows when to help us remember, when it is too late, and when to make us forget, so we can do it all again! It is the most wonderful cycle! And so much work, thank your Mama darling!!

Holi and TJ said...

Cute cute post Jenn...you couldn't have said it any better. Newborns are a lot of work, but like you said, all the work makes them that much more special and makes us love them that much more too!!